Answering 7 Of My Most Asked Questions

A few weeks ago, on my Instastories, I did a little Question and Answer session for my new followers. Over the last month I’ve gained so many new readers and followers and wanted to have a place for all the answers to my most asked questions. So here in blog post form, I’m finally answering them. To my Day 1’s…
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What to Do When Imitation Doesn’t Flatter

If you are good at doing something, anything really, in this life… some one will watch, imitate, copy and perhaps outright steal or expand on that thing. I’ve experienced this first hand. I’ve been blogging since 2010 when barely anyone was blogging and there certainly wasn’t much money to be made from it. I’ve seen bloggers come and go. Some…
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5 Ways to Know if You Should Hit That Block Button

I am a Taurus Woman and if it’s one thing I’ve learned to do incredibly well in my life, it’s the subtle art of cutting people off. When it comes to relationships and friendships, I love hard, very hard. It takes a lot to get me to a place where I absolutely positively want no contact once so ever with…
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The Beauty of Black Women’s Hair is Scary Territory for Non-Hair …

I was told by a friend who spoke one on one with an industry insider who does a lot of hiring for influencer campaigns, that the problem with Black women is that we change our hair too frequently and brands don’t know what they’re going to get. People are very afraid of the unknown, especially when it comes to the…
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No one cares that the industry scoffs at your Non-Ivy League Education

I had a reader ask me via DM what I thought about the whole bribery college scandal that included actresses Felicity Huffman and Lori Loughlin paying hundreds of thousands of dollars to buy their children’s way into prestigious colleges and universities. Honestly, I’m not surprised. It’s white privilege at work like it’s always been. Money talks and bullshit walks and…
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Black Girls Who Write: 10 Fashion Editors and Writers to Follow Now

I love living in New York. One of the main reasons I love living here is because it’s a magnet for young black women who write. Writing here is an actual career that one can pursue an actually make a decent living doing so. When I told my parents I wanted to switch my major to Journalism in undergrad they…
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